Today’s storyteller anonymously thought to share a rather interesting twist to an intending relationship. She felt she had the right man for her until….well let’s read the story
There’s this guy, I’ll name him Mr. Yin because I had felt he was the Yin to my Yan. Fortunately for my aching heart, he wasn’t who I thought he was! Mr. Yin is the typical spiritual leader whom people tend to reverence simply because “he can see road”, and I felt I needed a man who was after God’s heart. I met Mr. Yin in the house of God and a spark was lit, one that I still do not understand how it managed to ignite even from a distance. I remember as we got to start talking how he mentioned to me that I am his soulmate. I asked him to repeat himself but he sounded like he had spoken too fast. On my end I simply blushed and was wondering and asked Mr. Yin how he knew he was my soulmate all of a sudden, and we’re talking just 2 weeks into saying hi to each other. I told him about what I wanted in a man and how I had told God my request too, I told Mr. Yin about my past relationships and he too felt he could share his story with me. So we were on a roll and we met frequently and talked frequently but he never failed to remind me that we are just friends. And ladies, when a man says that to you, make sure with all your strength that the friendship has strict boundaries until the relationship is defined for what it is. Cause I never left the friend zone in Mr. Yin’s head! So I asked Mr. Yin if the friendship was with benefits, cause that’s what it really looked like and he said he didn’t know what that meant. While in essence, I was right! As time went by we had a huge fallout, and I began to feel bolder with my posts on social media, thinking Mr. Yin would get his “sub” just by reading my posts, I felt I could attract him somehow or get back his attention. I wasn’t wrong but guess what happened as I did that?
(Want more? Come read the rest of this story on Friday!)
